Self-compassion is a vital part of emotional healing, especially when you are dealing with grief and navigating its difficult emotions. Yet even in the best of times, being kind to yourself can be challenging. You might be great at showing compassion to others, but when it comes to turning that kindness inward, it is all

Nurturing Self-Compassion Through Metaphor and Creativity

When you’ve lost a child or a loved one, even a secular holiday like Labor Day can carry an unexpected weight. This holiday, often associated with the end of summer and the beginning of a busy season, can feel like another reminder of the absence in your life. The simplicity of a day off or

Grief Exercise: A Mindful Reset for the Transition into Fall

In embracing self-soothing practices you open a door to genuine self-healing. These mindful actions empower you to confront and manage your emotions, rather than sidestepping them through numbing. It’s about building resilience from the inside out, providing yourself with the compassionate attention you deserve. The strategies you employ to ease suffering and manage your emotions fall

Understanding Self-Soothing vs. Self-Numbing: A Path to Mindful Healing

Grief is often associated with the death of a loved one, but the truth is, we experience grief in many other forms throughout our lives. Non-death losses—like the end of a relationship, losing a job, or even unmet expectations—can trigger deep emotional responses that are just as valid and impactful as those caused by death. Yet,

4 Tips to Navigate Disenfranchised Grief and Non-Death Losses

Falling Waters, WV — We are thrilled to announce the upcoming release of Navigating Loss: Wisdom and Self-Care for Times of Grief and The Challenges of Life by Heather Stang, a groundbreaking guide that compassionately supports those experiencing grief from all forms of loss, including divorce, estrangement, finances, family caregiving, and career change. Available for

New Grief Book: Navigating Loss by Heather Stang

When you’re navigating grief, finding time for self-care can feel overwhelming. It’s not just about the hours in the day; it’s about the energy and motivation to take care of yourself when life feels so heavy. The truth is, self-care often becomes another thing on the to-do list, something that feels out of reach when

Self-Care for Grief Download: How To Make The Time & Remove Resistance

When I was about 14 years old I started writing in a journal. I was a grieving child. My mom’s brother, uncle Doug, died by suicide when I was just 7, and as I grew older some pretty big questions emerged. My family didn’t talk about it much, as you can imagine, so my journal became my confidant. It was a way for

Grief Journaling: A Healing Practice to Navigate Loss and Find Peace

Even in his absence, your connection with your father deeply etches itself on your heart. Reflecting on his imprint isn’t just an act of nostalgia; it’s a testament of enduring love that transcends his physical presence. Embracing this imprint within your grief, you nurture your natural longing for closeness. In this act of remembering, you

Father’s Day Grief: A Guided Meditation To Nurture Your Continuing Bond

Navigating through Father’s Day after a complex relationship can be a challenging and emotional process. It’s a day that can stir up a mix of emotions, especially if your relationship with your father was marked by mental illness, addiction, or any form of abuse. For me, my stepfather had bipolar disorder, a condition that brought an

Tips To Cope With Father’s Day Grief When Your Relationship Was Difficult

There is never a convenient time to lose someone you love. Nor is there a good time to be bowled over by emotions, especially at work or in a public place.  I know this firsthand. I can’t tell you how many times I have cried in a grocery store, on the street, or a restaurant during

Coping With Grief Waves at Work and in Public Places

Grief is a journey often difficult to navigate with words alone. Sometimes, the feelings and experiences are so profound that conventional language fails to capture them fully.  This is where the power of metaphors, combined with the therapeutic practices of journaling and drawing, comes into play. By engaging in these expressive activities, you’re not just

Journaling and Drawing Your Grief Metaphor

Grief has a profound way of reaching deep into our past, stirring up long-buried unmet needs from childhood. This emotional upheaval can resurface feelings of insecurity, abandonment, or not being seen and heard. It’s as if the loss we experience in the present echoes the unresolved pain and longing from our earliest years, bringing them

Meeting Your Own Needs When Grieving

In mindfulness, we find a powerful ally in our quest for clarity. It teaches us to see our thoughts and beliefs for what they truly are, allowing us to release what no longer serves us and embrace the truth of our experience. This clarity is not just about seeing more clearly; it’s about choosing to

Seeing Truth and Releasing Illusions: A Grief Meditation & Journaling Prompts

Meditation offers a sanctuary for the mind, a place where calmness and clarity can replace the turmoil and noise of everyday life. It’s a practice that doesn’t ask you to change who you are but invites you to become more aware of your inner self. When you are in deep grief, even a moment of relaxation

Visualizing A Place of Peace: A Grief Meditation & Journaling Prompts

Widows, widowers, and anyone who has lost a partner knows just how hard it is to cope with grief on Valentine’s Day. Claudia Coenen, widow and creative grief counselor, shares creative ways to cope with grief and heartache on Valentine’s Day, as well as activities and practices to honor and celebrate you love that undeniably very much present.

Valentine’s Day Grief: Creative Ways To Cope With Grief & Celebrate Your Love