Holiday Grief Advice: From Coping Skills to Honoring Love

The holidays can be an incredibly tough time when you’re grieving—I know because I’ve been there. For me, the season that once brought joy can now feel like a constant reminder of who’s missing. Over the years, I’ve learned ways to navigate the overwhelming emotions and create space for both grief and peace.

In this collection of articles, I share heartfelt stories, mindful practices, and strategies that have helped me and others cope. My hope is that you’ll find comfort and connection here, knowing you’re not alone in facing the holidays while grieving.

December 11, 2024

Holiday grief journal prompts give your heart a safe place to land. They help you honor your loved one, explore >> Read this article

Holiday Grief Journal Prompts: Tend to Your Love & Your Loss This Season

December 9, 2024

Grief rewrites our address book, as the saying goes, and the holidays can really underscore the difficulties in our relationships. >> Read this article

7 Tips To Cope with Difficult People & Holiday Grief

December 4, 2024

The holidays have a way of magnifying everything—joy, grief, connection, and loneliness. For those of us navigating estranged relationships, it’s >> Read this article

Cope With Family Estrangement During the Holidays: Mindful Tips for Emotional Well-Being

December 3, 2024

Grief during the holidays isn’t about letting go—it’s about learning to tend to your heartache and carry the love forward >> Read this article

The First Holiday Season Without Your Loved One: How To Cope With Grief

December 2, 2024

Grieving during the holidays can feel like an uphill battle. The season often brings heightened emotions, constant reminders of your >> Read this article

Coping With Grief During the Holidays: Practical Tips for a More Peaceful Season

November 29, 2024

Grief during the holidays can feel like an emotional rollercoaster, pulling you between heartache and moments of bittersweet memory. But >> Read this article

You Survived Your First Holiday Without Your Loved One….Here’s What’s Next

November 27, 2024

Even though Thanksgiving can be a tender and challenging time when you’re grieving, this meditation offers a way to transform >> Read this article

Meditation for Missing Your Loved One on Thanksgiving

November 25, 2024

Every holiday season, I work with my clients to create strategies for reducing holiday anxiety and navigating this emotionally charged >> Read this article

Holiday Grief Triggers at Parties? Tips to Stay Calm and Balanced

November 22, 2024

Deciding not to attend holiday events while grieving isn’t about saying no to people you care about—it’s about saying yes >> Read this article

How to Say No to Holiday Events While Grieving (Without the Guilt)

November 22, 2024

The holidays can feel like a minefield of emotions when you’re grieving. Thanksgiving, in particular, brings particular challenges—family traditions, expectations, >> Read this article

Dealing with Family Expectations When You’re Grieving This Thanksgiving

November 18, 2024

The holiday season can be hard when you’re grieving, and if you’re feeling overwhelmed, you’re definitely not alone. I created >> Read this article

How a Holiday Grief Support Group Can Bring You Peace This Season

November 17, 2024

In this article, I’ve listed 15 ways to honor your deceased loved one and organized it into three sections—individual, family, >> Read this article

15 Heartfelt Ways to Honor a Deceased Loved One on Thanksgiving

November 16, 2024

Thanksgiving is a holiday that centers on family gatherings, shared meals, and giving thanks. But for children who are grieving, >> Read this article

Thanksgiving Day with a Grieving Child? Here’s How to Help Them Cope

November 15, 2024

The holiday season, especially Thanksgiving, can be one of the hardest times of the year for those who are grieving. >> Read this article

Navigating Thanksgiving After Loss: Finding Comfort and Connection

November 11, 2024

The key to a calm, connected holiday season lies in clear, compassionate communication. Boundaries aren’t walls—they’re pathways to peace and >> Read this article

5 Steps to Communicate Your Needs During the Holidays with Difficult People

November 10, 2024

This is the time of year when many of us wonder how we are going to cope with holiday grief. >> Read this article

Balancing Coping Skills and Self-Care: Finding Resilience and Meaning During the Holidays

November 4, 2024

As many of us in the U.S. navigate the current climate of election season, anxiety can run high, adding to >> Read this article

November 2024: Political Anxiety + Heather Stang’s Grief Events

October 29, 2024

Self-care for holiday grief doesn’t have to be complicated or take up a lot of energy or time. Even just >> Read this article

5 Steps to Create Your 5-Minute Daily Self-Care Practice for Managing Holiday Grief

October 15, 2024

Grief changes the holiday landscape, but it doesn't have to dictate it. With compassionate planning, we can find a way >> Read this article

Free Grief During the Holidays Worksheet: A Planner to Help You Cope with Loss

September 30, 2024

The first Thanksgiving without your loved one may feel overwhelming, but you're not alone. What once may have been a >> Read this article

Your First Thanksgiving Without Your Loved One

September 26, 2024

For many of us, the fall season carries the heavy symbolism of death and endings. The leaves change and fall, >> Read this article

Coping with Halloween Grief: Surviving the Spooky Season

September 3, 2024

When you’ve lost a child or a loved one, even a secular holiday like Labor Day can carry an unexpected >> Read this article

Grief Exercise: A Mindful Reset for the Transition into Fall

December 25, 2023

I want to remind you of something incredibly important today: It's okay not to feel okay.Grief is a unique and >> Read this article

A Message for Grievers on Christmas Day

December 5, 2023

Christmas, in its essence, is a time of reflection and connection. As you navigate your first without a loved one, >> Read this article

Facing Your First Christmas Without Your Loved One

December 1, 2023

Grief during the holidays serves up a perfect storm where joyous memories crash against reality and expectations, something that is >> Read this article

7 Tips to Support Grieving Children During the Holidays

November 29, 2023

If you are grieving during the holidays, you may be wondering what you can do to make it through. Here >> Read this article

5 Tips For Grieving During The Holidays

November 28, 2023

Even if Thanksgiving felt like a disaster, it holds valuable lessons for us. As we approach Christmas, Hanukkah, and Kwanzaa, >> Read this article

Grief Journaling Prompts to Find Wisdom for Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, and Other Winter Holidays

November 20, 2023

In the thick of grief during the holidays, let's cherish connection over perfection, embracing each moment as it comes with >> Read this article

Presence, Not Perfection: Navigating Holiday Grief

December 21, 2022

MINDFULNESS & GRIEF PODCAST EPISODE 23 Coping With Grief During The Holidays Mindful Tips & Tools with Heather Stang SHOW >> Read this article

Podcast: Coping With Grief During The Holidays: Mindful Tips & Tools

December 20, 2022

Grief And Family Christmas GatheringsEven the most loving families can experience friction when they are grieving, especially at Christmas. Family >> Read this article

Christmas Grief: 6 Mindful Ways to Cope At Family Gatherings

November 7, 2018

MINDFULNESS & GRIEF PODCAST EPISODE 10Feeding Our GriefEating Disorders & Disordered Eating After LossWith Maria Mora, MS, RD, CEDRD, C-IAYTSHOW >> Read this article

Feeding Our Grief: Eating Disorders & Disordered Eating After Loss with Maria Mora, MS, RD, CEDRD, C-IAYT

December 20, 2014

My husband loves vintage decorative items. If you walked into our house, you might think you had been transported back >> Read this article

Mindfulness & The Holidays: A Vintage Christmas Tree Meditation

December 19, 2013

Grief & the holidays can be especially difficult. Mindful reflection can help you respond rather than react to triggers. The >> Read this article

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